LOOKING FOR ADVICE...How do I get a friend to leave my house when it's time to put kids to bed!?
I have this friend-we have known eachother forever and have kids about the same age...I like seeing her but she shows up unannounced and then WON'T go home! I can say, well, it's time to put the kids to bed...give them a bath...Have the kids pick up all the toys...she knows what time I put them to bed and it just seems like I can't get her to leave!!! And I really dont like the unannounced visits! To make it worse, she doesn't like my dog and her daughter can be mean to my daughter and it is not addressed properly..we live right next to eachother so it's not like i can pretend I'm not home...i hate being rude but feel she is being extremely rude by not taking the hint thAT it's time to leave. HELP
I think that's the problem, stop giving 'hints' and just tell her straight up. Believe it or not, some people really can't tell when you're trying to clue them in to something, you just gotta tell them what's up. It's like dealing with men. They don't get the 'hint' that you want to spend time together by you snuggling up with him on the couch and staring at him, you have to tell him what you want. So think of your relationship with your friend as a relationship with your man, just tell her exactly what you're thinking. Aside from that, even though she is your friend it is very rude of her to show up unannounced. My best friend of 13 years would never drop by unannounced.
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